I grew up in rural Southern Indiana. As a kid our family always celebrated New Years Eve up at my grandparent’s farm house. I assume our New Years celebrations where pretty much the same as most rural farm people’s at the time. The evening always started with a big farm supper, after which we kids had to help clear off the table and maybe help dry the dishes. After that, the fun part of New Years Eve began.
The whole extended family gathered in the living room, sitting in a circle for games. The “Ring on a String” game went like this:
A ball of string was brought out and everyone held out their hands and the string was strung around the circle of hands, then before loop of string was tied at the ends, someone’s ring was added unto the loop of string.
Someone from the group was chosen to be in the middle of the circle facing away from the ring, and then the ring on the string disappeared beneath someone’s closed fist.
Everyone sitting in the circle, started moving their closed hands back and forth along the string, with their hands bumping into their neighbors. During this movement of everyone’s hands, the ring was secretly passed from one person’s hand to their neighbors, circling this way or that, around the circle.
The goal of the game was for the person in the center of the circle to figure out who had the ring, by carefully watching everyone moving their hands back and forth on the circle of string. Once they guessed correctly, the person who had been caught with the ring, had to then be the one in the center of the circle.
The other game we usually played was called “Rhythm”. Again everyone was sitting in a circle. Together, everyone joined in on a four beat rhythm, that consisted of one slap on the thigh, then a clap of hands, then a finger snap on the left hand, followed by a finger snap with the right hand, all to the four beat rhythm. Once the rhythm got going, the designated lead person would say during the two finger snap beats:, “Category:” then name some category of things, like “type of birds”, “some kind of car,” or “some song”.
Going around the circle in turns, each person had to name something in the chosen category, saying it to the beat of the two finger snaps. Of course, keeping the rhythm, while thinking some new item in the category, eventually led to someone messing up. When they did, they were the one who had to start with a new category for the game.
After playing the games for a while, my grandmother would slip into the kitchen and make big bowls of popcorn for the crowd. As we all crunched on the popcorn we continually glanced at the big old clock on the fireplace mantle, waiting for twelve o clock and the New Year to arrive.
About five minutes before twelve, we kids would all go into the kitchen and grab a pan and spoon to use as noise-makers, then put on our coats and go outside into the dark. We would stand there patiently and silently in the cold, waiting for the big hour.
Usually before our time keeper’s watch got to midnight, we would hear the far away sound of neighbors, whose clocks were a bit faster, start to make noise of celebration in the dark of night.
Then using those fast neighbors as an excuse, we all began to yell and pound on our pots and pans with the spoons, making as much noise as we could, as we joined in the celebration for the arrival of a brand new year.
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